Research Paper

THE PSYCHOLOGICAL EFFECT OF THE SOUL MATE IDEA

A Research Paper Presented to

The English Resource Center

School Of Multimedia Arts

Asia Pacific College

Magallanes, Makati City

In Partial Fulfillment

of the Requirements for the Course

ERESWRT-Research Writing

Chrisia Mae I. Rosco

August 2014

Chapter 1

INTRODUCTION

A. Background of the Study

Nowadays teens are more attach and apply the knowledge of the love magic. Unlike the other generations they are pertain in the way they want to do or to feel the love. Most likely a lot of them are in love because of the idea of the existence of something. This idea really affect the decision of others in terms of taking decision about love. SOUL MATES, this is a belief wherein you are thinking or maybe predicting that someone is your partner/couple in this earth.

Probably before knowing that is your soul mate you might be feel this kind of feeling. Its like we are simply relating ourselves in the scenarios that commonly happen in a fairy tale. So crush is a first part of soul mates though it is such familiar in most of the teenager because they are much attractive in the physical appearance of that person not on his/her attitude. In the article entitled,"Soul Mates- Our Magic Mirror" written by Anita Asman. This article states that crush only last for a maximum of months but if will exceed more than this, you are already in love. You might feel strong & fast heart beats,weakened knees and inexplicable attractions everytime you will see him/her.


According to Anita Asman," The eyes are the mirror to the soul when your eyes meet, you remember each other." (http://theunexplainedworld.com/asoulmate.htm)

Reincarnation matters on that quote. You are maybe have connection to the world of the soul mate. Because some people reincarnate and your soul consciously remember,the joy and the pain you shared the past lifetime you spend together a decade or a century. You just fall in love in some reasons but some articles explains and give ideas about the elements of the soul mates. In the article entitled," The 10 elements of a Soul Mate" written by Dr. Carmen Harra. She explains more about how would you find your soul mate partner in this kind of criteria. She stated that lovers are the keys who fit to the lock of the person that they loved. Soul mates aren't just the one who fulfill in a way we want it.

"Your soul mate makes you feel entirely whole,healed and interact,like no missing from the pieces", Dr. Carmen Harra stated. (http://www.huffingtonpost.com/dr-carmen-harra/elements-of-a-soulmate_b_3595992.html)


The perfect lover you will find can make you feel whole and protected. Life is nothing without love. Because it is the way that's why He created us. It is a part of His greatest gift "Our Lives". Soul Mate is a very mysterious topic and most of us believe in this. But somehow then let us think that someone is staring and looking at us above.


In the article entitled, "The Soul Mate Fantasy" written by David Beasley, states that soul mates are fantastical,unreal notion that God brings together two lost heart who experience true compatibility in all the deepest longings for their beings. Others be like, Soul Mate is someone with whom you argue and spend endless days of hand clinching romantic walk.


According to David Beasley,"It only comes from giving up the selfish behavior that served that served you while you were single and focusing on selflessly serving again spouse instead." (http://www.familylife.com/articles/topics/marriage/getting-married/engagements-and-weddings/the-soul-mate-fantasy#.U9j9ZeOSw8p)



Talk to God and say the things you want to happen. Patience will be your key and this kind of scenario you want to exist will happen on a successful and real thing.



In spite of the unrealistic belief about the soul mates. They're a lot of individuals, most probably couples are into it and still hoping hat it is exist. But then they didn't notice that being into this kind of idea/belief may affect them psychologically like having a more stronger relationship than the others who don't believe in this kind of idea. Such as this also may happen vice versa. This may help the believers cope with the realistic pattern of the true world of love. Psychological problems can affect your personal behavior and thinking/decision making process. Therefore,having background knowledge about soul mates will add or maybe help us learn a new and proper understanding to what we should believe through. Knowing that this maybe hard to defend because studies don't find good proof regards to its existence.


The purpose of this paper is to explain the psychological effect of believing in the existence of the soul mates.


B. Statement of the Problem 

            This study aims to answer this question:

1.) What are the psychological effect of believing in soul mates?


C. Significance of the Study

Teenager -This research paper would be able to help teenager who believes in the idea of the soul mates. This can make them understand more knowledgeable about soul mates. Moreover, the researchers hope that giving emphasis to the existence of soul mates can make a positive contribution in the relationship.


Believers - The believers would benefit from this study because they would be able to understand things more about love. The information in this paper may also help them to be more open-minded because being into this kind of idea may affect them psychologically.


Couples - Knowledge of this study would help couples understand the world of love wider. Because soul mates can change the way they make decisions. This believe would help there relationship more stronger without the belief of the existence of something.


Future Researcher - This study is important for those future researchers to make similar studies since soul mates is a crucial topic. Some previous researchers don't have proof that can strongly persuade others to stop believing in this topic. The information from this study can help them improve and understand deeper. Also this can give more detail study for their topic.


D. Scope and Delimitation


This study focuses on the psychological effect of soul mates through the relationship. Considering that soul mates has a wide effect to the couples that experiencing a dilemma because of this idea.

Due to the lack of time this study will no longer discuss about the scientific studies that can give a proof unto soul mates existence widely. And in how should this affect you in a scientifically reasons. This is also to give emphasis to the psychological affection of soul mates to the human beings.



E. Materials and Methods 

The information relevant to the study was gathered from various reference through online sources. The researcher used this sources to gather information and summarize it to make the study easy to understood.

This can make you understand how soul mate idea can find your couple and can affect you psychologically.


F. Definition of Terms

Belief - an acceptance that a statement is true or something exists.

Couple - Two people who are married,engaged or otherwise closely associated romantically or sexually; two individuals of the same sort or considered together. 

Crush - a brief but intense infatuation for someone, especially someone unattainable or inappropriate.

Lovers - a person having a sexual or romantic relationship with someone, often outside marriage.

Soul mates - a person with whom one has a feeling of deep or natural affinity.

Reincarnation - the religious or philosophical concept that the soul or spirit, after biological death,begins a new life in a new body.

Relationship - state of being connected by blood or marriage.


                  

Chapter 2

DISCUSSION

What are the PSYCHOLOGICAL EFFECT of believing in soul mates?

I. Superstition & Psychology

Superstition is the belief in supernatural causality. These can make us think that a thing/idea naturally exist. This can affect you in making your life more tricky and exciting, but it will come to the point that being into this kind of idea merely affects you too much in making your life more difficult.

As superstition conquer the idea of soul mates; this thing just make the life of every individuals be more hopeful for chances forever. They will just end up to the point that being so attach to this kind of scenario will just make them ill and crazy, probably being into the ideas that do not have a evidence for its existence can be level to a joke. 

Believing in superstition like, when your crush and you has the same color of the clothes this day and to the other day; this may consider that both of you are soul mates. This is one of the famous superstition that researcher finds out when they studying about this kind of idea. They probably end up to a non-sense basis of learning in the beliefs that traditionally known among the generations nowadays.

We are just attaching ourselves to a nonsense ideas that will make us think that this exist. Maybe that scenario is a coincidence and none of you expect that you have the same color of the shirt for that day. CHANCES matters here but in studies it don't make sense.

We Filipinos are very attach to this things. In the article, " The Filipino Superstition-The Wacky side of Culture" written by NKORUNE, a blogger. He stated that we are so loved to be in this kind of topic that's why we simply involve ourselves in the different scenarios that not necessary to use as a source for finding and belief in the kind of idea like this, "When your nose is itchy, someone's kissing your photo." Kinda weird because there will be instances that something happen to your nose or probably its irritating, and nothing to do on the point of giving beliefs that just make you crazy. Because it is NON-SENSE. 

According to the blogger NKORUNE ,"When it came to relationship superstitions, a part of me believed them. Maybe because I didn't want to risk the relationship even if they were just silly beliefs."

(http://oldfashinthecity.wordpress.com/2012/03/02/filipino-superstitions)

II. The Effects of Soul Mates Belief

A. Soul mates & Relationship stability:


CULTURE,the act of developing the intellectual and moral faculties especially by education, it is also an integrated pattern of human knowledge,belief and behavior that depends upon the capacity for learning and transmitting knowledge to succeeding generations.(Source:Merriam Webster).This is how the generation from now attach to this because of the transmitted learning and knowledge. We are just doing the same thing as the other do past years ago. One of the example the moves in having a soul mate relation is the feelings that you are expressing to your heart but sense by your brain or eyes.

In an article entitled," The Soul Mate Fantasy" written by David Beasley. This article was written by Mr. David Beasley(Deceased) and edited by his wife Sabrina to publish for the website Family Life. This article written before the writer died because of an automobile accident. He wrote this article to make an eye opener that the soul mates are meant because of the power of our Creator.

He was devoted to the blessed power of God and he connected the article on how they lived and survived their relationship by prayers. Most other people were fantastical, unreal notion that God brings together two lost heart who experience true compatibility in all the deepest longings for their being. Others be like, Soul mate is someone with whom you argue and spend endless days of hand-clinching romantic walk. With no hardships and no struggles. The only truth is, soul mate isn't someone you intentionally and prayerfully become. And so, this is what we are culture for the PRAYERS that we do in order to have a best or maybe a better half to be with through the connection of our Creator. Talk to God and say the things you want to happen. Patience will be your key and this will be the kind of scenario you want to happen will be successful and real.

"It only comes from giving up the selfish behavior that served you while you were single and focusing on selflessly serving again spouse instead",Mr. Beasley said. 
(http://www.familylife.com/articles/topics/marriage/getting-married/engagements-and-weddings/the-soul-mate-fantasy#.U6aqZJR8DMg)

B. Soul mates & Creation:

Most of us are really into movie such as soul mates are one of the most common topic that conquer the theater or cinema. It has a lot of lessons and variety of scenarios that connect to the life of every people. Mostly movies are the eye opener to those people since it teaches/shows you the truth probably the reality of life. Different settings or scenarios that may reflect directly called as "Mirror of Life" . It mirrors the true emotion, action and feeling that the actors or actresses portray in a screenplay (movies). Movie goers are actually attach to the different kind of movies that help them to remember or think about the things that recall something to assist ideas through the reality of life.

So why did I connect this to the psychological effect of soul mates? Suddenly people want to feel in love,right?. In the article entitled,"Why searching for a soul mate could stop you even finding love" written by Andrew Marshall. This article states that movies try to overlook the actuality of those scenarios that maybe used to determine the true stage of your love life. Because it will matter on how they rationalize their selves in the moments or problems that they may affect them a lot. 

Well, it will not matter on the decision they do but on the possibilities that may happen if your point of views will be affected. Well in this argument/problem the decision making process may affects you a lot psychologically. Those scenarios provides you P.O.V. that really makes you in a good way or maybe in the miserable kinda result.

According to Andrew Marshall,"The myth of soul mates can provide fig leaf to convince people that it is OKAY to cheat if they are DESTINED". 

(http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2048434/Why-searching-soulmate-stop-finding-love.html)

C. Soul mates & Standards

Soul mate, this is a belief to have a lover/suitor in a very perfect time or place. Though you're not sure regards to its existence. Love concept is playful,truly hard to find some one that will seriously and happily stayed with for the rest of his/her life.

Existence? It has a very deep meaning though. Probably you might apply something that impossible to appear. Like soul mate, many people accept the concept of having a meant to be even though it is not yet proven. Since all of us are expecting to have a perfect husband/wife but not that necessarily cause maybe in some instance you two may have imperfections. But then this person will be expected as your lover,the one who will take care and commit his life time with you.

This article entitled,"Do soul mates really exist?" written by M.Farouk Radwan. This further explains about the P.O.V. of the writer around the notion of the soul mate. He think that people assume for the thing that they realize the similarity of them. Like what they picture through their father that they wonder those similarity to their BF(Boyfriend). Well those movies that we watch can persuade us to believe to the existence of this concept. But then try to think that this can actually help you to find that perfect person for you to be with for the rest of your life.

"We fall in love with people when they meet our subconscious criteria which is a list of conditions present in our minds that is based on our pasts,unmet,needs and the desire to compensate for our weaknesses". M.Farouk Radwan stated.
(http://www.2knowmyself.com/love_psychology/do_soul_mates_really_exist)

D. Effects of the Soul mates 

Some people are attach on the presence of the idea of soul mates. Meant to be? A word that is used when are referring to a person with his/her couple. Well not to generalize them so, because some of them are not yet have this kind of relation to each other since they are waiting for someone that make them feel special.

Instances have this two way process to find someone that they want to be with someday. Those are the process that commonly apply by the persons that desperate to have a better half. Its either TO WAIT/TO PRAY for him/her for he will be with you for the rest of your life. But you are prefer for him the most. Since some are really based their selves to the idea of prayer.  They're praying for the "SOMEONE" that will possibly change their life.

The article entitled,"The soul mates:What does the Bible say about the one' You're Destined to Marry?" written by Tyler O'Neil. He wrote this article to have an eye opener for those that believing on the power of God on the connection of soul mates. It has effect because many believers will depend their selves on the idea of this thing. They will just wait for the person that actually not existing and cannot be with them for the rest of their lives. 

According to Tyler O'Neil ,"Each man and woman scours the earth for their perfect spouse, so the two can become one again."

(http://www.christianpost.com/news/soul-mates-what-does-the-bible-say-about-the-one-youre-destined-to-marry-102136)


III. CONCLUSION:

Soul mates may help you to be a better individual though it has many instances that will make you an idiot/maybe crazy. Why? Because believing in this kind of idea is nothing without studies and those proofs that can make you satisfy in believing in this idea. It is worth believing for if this concept is really existing and true.

Well, you can't definitely judge those person who believe in this idea. We can be more strong in facing this kind of dilemma, because we probably sink in those belief but naturally don't have concrete ideas that others may understand. As soul mates conquer the connections that may help you believe that the topic exist but it doesn't foment the evidence to support it.

There are a lot of things to be settle just to understand the ideas/evidence of the topic. We can think those things that can satisfy others that soul mate exist. Even though this idea has a lot of effects to you as an individual you continuously believe to this and forget that it may affect you psychologically.

Maybe you should stop the appreciation of the movies idea. These may help you to stop comparing yourself in the scenarios that commonly happen also on the reality of life. We can be more specific that not all people can experience the same thing like others do. We are living in the same planet but we are not definitely have the same states in life. We don't experience things that are similar to the other people. Such that we are always compare ourselves on the scenes that usually happen on the movies. Probably we have the same picture on the setting that is played on the big screen that are portray by the actors and actresses. But actually these ideas are luckily choose to conquer the big screen to be an eye-opener to those people. These are the reasons of the movies that is played to the movie house. They definitely depend to a particular person if he/she have a chance to have that same scenario and be inspire that someday he/she will be experience that thing. 


We are all want to feel in love. Since this is the true essence of life. But we shouldn't believe those things that it is existing. Because these are just the example of belief,superstition,stories and more other connections to this topic. Definitely we are all, people but it is obvious that we don't have the same ideas/thoughts about life. So we should lessen this thing and be based to the reality. We will be more open-minded and mature if we will probably do this thing.

Patience will be the key and will be the fighter/defender that will keep this. Soul mates are just ideas not a reality that can definitely change your life.

Chapter 3

SUMMARY,CONCLUSION AND 

RECOMMENDATIONS

SUMMARY

This paper attempted to explain the psychological effect of believing in soul mate ideas.

The research design used in this study is the explanatory research method wherein data collected from the articles are used to answer the research question posed. The research findings are the following:

1.  Crush is a first part of soul mates though it is such familiar in most of the teenager because they are much attractive in the physical appearance of that person not on his/her attitude. 

2. Reincarnation is also connected to the soul mate ideas, because of some people reincarnate and your soul consciously remember,the joy and the pain you shared the past lifetime you spend together a decade or a century. You just fall in love in some reasons

3.  Soul mates are fantastical,unreal notion that God brings together two lost heart who experience true compatibility in all the deepest longings for their beings. 

4. In spite of the unrealistic belief about the soul mates. They're a lot of individuals, most probably couples are into it and still hoping hat it is exist.

CONCLUSION

Based on the findings of the study, the following conclusions are drawn:

1. As superstition connect to the idea of soul mates; this affects them psychologically because those believers will just hopeful for chances of forever.

2. Culture affects the society as they believe in this idea. This is how the generation from now attach to this because of the transmitted learning and knowledge. We are just doing the same thing as the other do past years ago.

3. Watching movies can also make you a believer of this idea and it can affect you psychologically. Movies try to overlook the actuality of those scenarios that maybe used to determine the true stage of your love life. Because it will matter on how they rationalize their selves in the moments or problems that they may affect them a lot. 

4. Many people accept the concept of having a meant to be even though it is not yet proven; because the standards that you want don't reach the expectation that happen in the reality of life. 

5.  They will just wait for the person that actually not existing and cannot be with them for the rest of their lives. So they will be instances that they will be living alone.

RECOMMENDATIONS

After drawing the conclusions of the study, the researchers hereby make the following  suggestions/recommendations:

1. Soul mates may help you to be a better individual though it has many instances that will make you an idiot/maybe crazy, because believing in this kind of idea is nothing without studies and those proofs that can make you satisfy in believing in this idea. It is worth believing for if this concept is really existing and true.

2. Teenagers should stop believing in this thing, such as this idea can make them not really into the reality. Maybe some scenarios may help them think that it is existing but definitely not. 

3. For the future researchers who will study more about soul mates, this research paper can help them to be open minded. Because the idea of this is not so helpful for those people in  the society. If ever they will study about the soul mates existence hopefully they shall tackle about the evidences to support the given topic.




REFERENCES

Asman, Anita ; Soul Mate-Our Magic Mirror;http://theunexplainedworld.com/asoulmate.htm


Beasley, David(Deceased) Edited by Sabrina Beasley; The Soul Mate Fantasy; http://www.familylife.com/articles/topics/marriage/getting-married/engagements-and-weddings/the-soul-mate-fantasy#.U9j9ZeOSw8p


Harra, Carmen Ph.D ; The 10 elements of Soul mates;http://www.huffingtonpost.com/dr-carmen-harra/elements-of-a-soulmate_b_3595992.html 


NKORUNE; The Filipino Superstition-The Wacky side of Culture; http://oldfashinthecity.wordpress.com/2012/03/02/filipino-superstitions


Marshall, Andrew; Why searching for a soul mate could stop you even finding love ;http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2048434/Why-searching-soulmate-stop-finding-love.html


M.Farouk Radwan; Do soul mates really exist?; http://www.2knowmyself.com/love_psychology/do_soul_mates_really_exist



O'Neil,Tyler; The soul mates:What does the Bible say about the one' You're Destined to Marry? ; http://www.christianpost.com/news/soul-mates-what-does-the-bible-say-about-the-one-youre-destined-to-marry-102136

Blog Post 8: How to Find your SOUL MATES?

A lot of people agree and disagree about the existence of this concept. Some of them are really applying those ideas to their life and let these be happen and be true. Like our dreams, Dreams are definitely exist if you just exert effort to do something just to make it true. Things have its own existence. But you cannot predict if the existence of that thing will be this time or maybe next time.

Love/Soul Mate? You can't predict what will happen to you after the break ups and other that will destroy the great formation of your heart. The soul mate concept have its broad topic that affect many parts of your life.

"Sample Picture if you will find your soul mate"

The first article that I've read entitled 9 Signs You've Found Your Soulmate (If You Believe In That Sort Of Thing) written by Kelsey Borresen from the site huffingtonpost.com. This article gives you an idea of how you can find your soul mate. It is also said in the article that the soul mate is unrealistic thing. But it may happen in some people who believe and attract on this kind of concept. The article construct a lot of ideas that may help you change the way that you think about the concept of Soul Mate. And this are the signs that you may treasure to consider that you totally find your perfect half.

Soul Mate, It is a magical person that connected to your life and let you became more molded and completed. People are so attach to this kind of topic and then well concentrated to what will happen to you if you will suddenly believe to this kind of concept. The article clearly stated and give the tips that can make you believe the topic do exist. The most common tip is You communicate without speaking, maybe you both are just talking by simply looking each other and understand those movements you do. Second, The physical chemistry is palpable. Its like you are just holding the hand of your soul mate but then you feel the electricity from both of you and the sweetness is in there even though you are holding the hand of your sou mate. These are just some of the signs that the article give to us. Enable for those who really believe in this concept. Considering that the writer give us the 9 tips for us to know the sign that we really find the right soul mate.

According to Ms. Kelsey Borresen,"When that person is a romantic partner, you've come across something truly special." Love may matter in many aspects. The true perfect couple or soul mate is the one that you will be with a truly and very memorable thing. Special to say and very rare to find.

The second article that I've read entitled, 6 steps finding your soulmate written by Arielle Ford from the site life.gaiam.com. This article is much simply give you some tips to find your soul mate. Much interesting than the first article because this article give us the tip to how to find our soul mate or couple. Than the other because that article just give the signs not the tips to tell you how to find your mate forever.

The article give us the 6 steps to find our soul mate, but for me the most important thing that the writer give us is "They set an intention and followed it up with an action". Because for us to have a better and perfect relationship to others we need to show our intention and let them see your action for them to know that you are really want them to be your love/special someone. For example, You will court them,send them letters,give them flowers and chocolates. Simple and popular but girls like me really appreciate it the most.

"Courtship"

"It’s pretty empowering to realize that even the most mystical, magical encounters required the soon-to-be lovers to take action—to deliberately put themselves in the “right place at the right time.”", Ms. Arielle Ford. Soul mate may give us a lot of ideas and power to be love or love but give a right timing to do it all. Because are merely planned so well to become more successful and good to know so. It may help us in different way. Time is really good if will just manage it and use it in a good way.

Soul mate may exist if will just believe that life has its way in how it will flow. Life also is a matter of choices. It will be more exciting if you will explore. Like love, It will be more existing if you will do some action. And you will put some good intention to the one that you love. Be playful in a good way not in a bad way. Because things that you already destroy cannot be bring back to its original form. It may have some scratches and you can't cure it anymore. So be careful and be thankful. This is my last blog. Hope that the all blogs that I've wrote help you to find the person that you love. Thank God <3 :)

Love Quote

Blog Post 7: Other Connection Of Soul Mates

Soul mate is a person with whom one have a deep feeling or natural affinity. Soul mate is the concept that tackles more about love life but then it also attach some other lesson that may teach you to be a better person and will make you be careful in searching your better/best half someday. Loving someone isn't so hard but finding someone is hard. So it is not a big deal if you will believe in the concept . Considering that soul mate not just involve the topic of love but also similarity ,friendship,sexuality and trust.

Maybe this is the reason why a lot of people really depend life in luck and chances. Life is a matter of choices. you choose to be loved,cared of and be inspired. But why do people believe the concept of soul mate? They're a lot of people believe in this concept but some are ignoring this and let the fate do its job.

"Rebecca Holman"

I've read an article I don't believe in soul mates- and neither should you written by Rebecca Holman from the site telegraph.co.uk. The writer herself was an atheist, she was inspired to wrote the article to informed the reader that soul mate was not just about the thing that already tackles mere about LOVE. But she clarifies that having a soul mate is a person that you are compatible with or comfortable to be with.

This article also explain and tell some stories that has a proof about the existence of the topic. Some other are really about the soul mate topic of friendship, like the story of Mairoux twins, they are really dedicated of their halves and they think that the concept is really fantastical and rare. They think that because of their situation, they're really consider as soul mates. 

 According to Ms. Holman, "Two people who are meant to be together, overcoming all obstacles in their own way are called soul mates." This is the statement that may treasure unto you 'cause not all the concept is ideal and popular can merely affirm you about love life. Considering that we are also created to be loved by the other person as a friend, classmates,childhood buddies and best friend.

The second article that I've read is about How to Know When You've Found Your Soul Mate written by Shelly Bullard from the site mindbodygreen.com. The article stated that the soul mate thingy is a tradition that is pass through generation to generation. But seems that the whole article is explaining more likely in how will you know if you found your soul mate. Since we are merely talking about the soul mate topic this article is kinda interesting, 'cause it tackles about the own P.O.V. of other people. Seems that the article is explaining that the soul mate exist in the different kind of scenarios.

It is also said that love is really logical because of its soul. Soul can make or either find you the one that you will supposed to be with through the rest of your life. It is due to the attraction that you receive by each other.


"Soul Mates are brought into your life so that you can grow and expand into the best version of yourself.", Ms. Bullard. This quote remind us that the life is such a cycle that help us to be molded, to be very good and well-mannered person in the society. Because of the help that you receive through the one that you love. 


Soul Mate has a lot of connection to our lives. In the different kind of way and manner. It also affect many kind of scenarios. Not all soul mates are created to be your special partner in life. But then it also made to be your best friend,friend,a shoulder to lean on and other forms of individual. Be happy and contented. Soul mates are made not found as what I've read on the quotes that I search on Google. Last blog ahead :D THANK GOD. <3

Blog Post 6: Connection of Soul Mates (MOVIES)

Soul mates are one of the most common topic that really conquer the theater or cinema.It has a lot of lessons and variety of scenarios that really connect to the life of every people. Mostly movies are the eye opener to those who really addicted to it or maybe some are just watch and consider it as a eye opener.

Movies or film is a series of still images that may show on screen. It has a lot of things to shown. Different scenarios that really happen on the life of every people. Movie are so called a "Mirror of Life". Since the settings/scenario are sometimes reflects directly to what the reality shown. It mirrors the true emotion,action and feeling that the actors/actress portray in a screenplay(movies). Moviegoers are actually attach to the different kind of movies that helps them to remember or think about the things that recall something to assist some ideas through the reality of life. Most commonly, LOVE LIFE.

Love Life? Why it is the common kind of topic that the movies have? Simply because all of us want to experience or want to feel in love. Movies/Film will be more catchy if this kind of movie will be play or seen on the wide screen on the theater or cinema. Considering that the girls are the movie addicts than the boys. But sometimes boys are attach also in the movies but not in drama's or love life topic. Seriously boys are attract to the kind of movie that tackle or portray about action or wars. 

"Movie Quote"

Why searching for a soul mate could stop you ever finding love written by Andrew G. Marshall from the site dailymail.com, this is the first article that I've read. This article tackles about some problems or maybe a explanation about the feeling that you feel when you are broken or out this world. It is also a overlook of how the movie connects more often to the life of other people that sometimes affect the decision that you will make. It is more likely happen on the scenarios that connect to the love life. In the part of the article it is said that it is not possible that the people will live with each other with a harmony. Because it will matter on how they rationalize their selves in the moments or problems that may affect them a lot. It will not matter on the decision you do but on the possibilities that may happen if your point of views will be affected.

"Scene capture on the movie- ONE DAY"

The movie that was used as an example on the article was the "One Day". This is produce by the 21st-century. It purport the myths of soul mates. This movie will make you think a lot about the concept of soul mates. In how the relationship will be more effective if you will avoid to find your soul mate because you fall in love not you find the love.

"The myth of soul mates can provide a fig leaf  to convince people that it is OKAY to cheat if they are "DESTINED" to be with some one else", Mr. Andrew Marshall. This quote may affect also the decision process of an individual because it sense of this quote is more about to find someone else even though you have someone that you be with. In a way that you just think that you are meant to be with each other.

The second article that I've read is Do Soul Mate Exist written by Eddie Chandler from the site askmen.com. This article tackles about what soul mate is. How soul mate connect to the life of every individual and how does it affect the life and the P.O.V. of the people around you. The decision making process change its way because of the concept of  Soul Mates. Probably the Love Life decision either affects it most. Based on the article, look for someone who suits you. It can be better if you have similar interest and goals. Because of this you will have a good future to build with each other. This is the true meaning of TRUE LOVE not the SOUL MATE thingy.

"Quotes about love"

Why most movies have this kind of topic selection? Simply or ordinarily because all people/individual really love to feel in love. Love is the feeling that all of us experience. This kind of thing is important because life will be more exciting and merely enjoyable/adventurous if explore the world with love.

According to Mr. Eddie Chandler,"We may never know if we should be looking for one or many soul mates or if they even exist. In the meantime, look for someone who seems like the best fit." In short, wait for the right time and person. It doesn't matter if it takes a long time. It matter in the way that you fall and suddenly fall on the person that you will be with for the long time.

Soul mate has a lot of connection to all us. But it will take a lot of scenarios to understand why do it really exist. Life is the novel that we are the writer and the people who observes you are the people that surrounds you. Movies are just the reflection of the reality of life. But all of us has a lot of stories that doesn't similarly happen on the same track of life. Be happy and explore life fulfill by the love of other and also the love that you give to yourself. Two blogs more... So happy that I suddenly do it so far :D Thanks God. <3

Blog Post 5: Stars of Love(Astrology)

"Astrological Signs"

Astrology, this is the astronomical phenomena that the concept is related to the events of human beings. Many of us Filipino's are really addicted to the concept of the zodiac signs, horoscope and other forms of beliefs that maybe predict on the use of the astronomy. Many cultures were attached to the beliefs and predictions of the astronomical phenomena and this was the Chinese,Indians and Mayans. These citizens are commonly known to use the connection of astronomy to there lives. The Chinese are known to use Feng shui and other sets of predictions that can mere connect the concept of stars on to their lives. 

Soul Mates/Destiny are the most influential topic or concept that mostly use to connect the pattern of stars on the concept of love. Love is a very broad topic to all. This is the feeling that most of us wanted to feel. Horoscopes are usually see or read to the newspapers that gives tip ton the readers about the forecast of the zodiacs that the readers may have.

"Pictures of the different Zodiac Signs"

The first article that I've read entitled The Astrology of Soul Mates: The Light and the Dark of It written by Linda George from the site llewellyn.com. This article talks about the concept of soul mate that connected through the ideas and mind sets of the astrological matter like the Zodiac Signs and Horoscope. It also argue about the Light and Dark kind of soul mates. Light Soul mates are easy to find or can be shown its attractive sides than the dark one is less attractive and can't be that so easy to find. It is really widespread idea that the prediction is sometimes true considering that some other people have their own destined partner like you are fit to a mate that the Zodiac is Libra and you are a Capricorn. It is just a example but there is a lot of it. 

 Soul Mate and astrological ideas are the same. Considering that those sets of topics or concept are both prediction and belief but there are some studies that can give you some ideas that helps you believe that it is existing. People can love without this concept because you are the one that controls your feelings and this can't be express by learning or reading.

"They also know that love is the reason they are together", Linda George. People are definitely fall in love to each other not just about they believe the concept of astrology and soul mates. But they are complicatedly face the fact that they already experience the beauty and the power of the love spell.

"Soul Mate Imaginary picture"

Finding your Soul Mate through Astrology written by Gail Kavanagh from the

site doityourself.com. This article explains more about the concept of astrology and how can this concept helps you to cope on the broad topic of SOUL MATES. It said in the article that astronomy can be the first good indicator. It helps you to judge whether those people will have that compatibility to each other. It also stated at the article that the four elements of astrology are air,water,fire and earth. The study said that the air signs are the GEMINI, LIBRA, AND AQUARIUS. The water signs are CANCER, SCORPIO, AND PISCES. The fire are ARIES, LEO, AND SAGITTARIUS. The earth signs are the TAURUS, VIRGO AND CAPRICORN. The elements share the same element to get along the to share the same goals in life although they have the different ways of seeking those goals. Because these elements may sometimes contradict the direction of the elements .

The article also connects the idea of the planets on the concept of finding the soul mate, because it is also stated that the Mars and Venus will be so compatible to each other because. They have the sense of being a happy couple, in the romantic and sexual aspects. Because of the studies that is made by the astrologist.

"So you can see there is much more to finding your soul mate than simply the sun sign", Gail Kavanagh. This statement is talking about the SUN SIGNS; sun signs means WITH OURSELVES. Definitely we need to be committed to what we want to do like about the soul mates or the partner that we wanted to be with in the future. We need to wait and to wait for it. Since all the good things comes in an expected scenarios and time. Just wait and there will be an answer.

Life is like a UNIVERSE. It is wide and beautiful. But it has many mystery and stories behind this stars and planets. And this is how we connect it to the concept of SOUL MATES through the astrology. It is widely mysterious but those stories are beautiful. Just enjoy life and wait for the right time. Have a good day :) Three blogs more :))

Blog Post 4: Soul Mate do EXIST or NOT?

SOUL MATE,this is a belief to have a lover in a very perfect time and place. It's really hard that you're not sure for its existence.Love concept is playful,it is truly hard to find someone that will seriously and happily be with you for the rest of your lifetime.

Existence? This is a very hard word to apply in some thing that you are expecting to exist. Like SOUL MATE. Many other people accept the concept of having a meant to be,Right? Since all of us are expecting to have a husband/wife in the future. That we will take care,love and share our life time experience on earth.

"Soul Mate not really exist"

Love is such a very powerful kind of feeling. It can be express in many ways. As love is connected to the process of the SOUL MATES. Actually, this is the major cause of having a soul mate thingy on our mind. Considering that we always think of it that we are having that M.U.(most popularly known as Mutual Understanding). But love is not measure of that M.U. thingy. Because we should always think and feel the love so that we can claim that person as our SOUL MATE. But does it exist or not? Big question that may answer in some point. 

I've read an article entitled, Do Soul Mates really exist? written by M.Farouk Radwan from the site 2knowmyself.com. The site is like an encyclopedia. It discuss more about love life as what I observe from its past articles. But let us focus on the latest, I mean, the article that will help us to answer the question if the soul mate thingy is really exist. The article further explains about the own P.O.V. (Point of View) of the writer around the notion of the soul mate. He think that people assume for the thing that they are just realize the similarity of the person, like your father/BFF(Boy Friend Forever). The article merely talk about the story of a girl who believes in the concept of soul mate. The one talk about this is "Sarah", a girl that ask for the advice about the soul mate. She thought that the guy she had met was her forever /soul mate.(Maybe we connect can connect this to the movie of FROZEN) 

"Hans and Anna-FROZEN Character"

The soul mate exist according to the article but only in the movies. So the result is you are just persuade by watching movies so you are tend to believe that it exist. Considering that you can hinder the truth that you are not meant for each other. You did a wrong choice and you become disappointed. So you thought that your unrealistic belief in realistic world ruin your life.

"500 days of Summer"

"We fall in love with people when they meet our subconscious criteria which is a list of conditions present in our minds that is based on our pasts,unmet needs and the desire to compensate for our weaknesses", Mr. Farouk Radwan said.  This statement really persuade us not to believe in the concept of soul mate. Nor we are fall in love not meant.

Jeremy Nicholson
-Doctor of Attraction

Why You Shouldn't Believe in Soul Mates? written by Jeremy Nicholson, Doctor of Attraction from the site psychologytoday.com. The second article that I've read, this article talks about the Soul mates and belief in Romantic Destiny.They are a lot of people who really believe in soul mate but this is wrong as what the article said.According to this article, there is a lot of problems will come because if the expectations don't cope well to your partner, you will leave the relationship instead. In short soul mate concept ideally motivate individual to give up and the relationship will be not that perfect.

This article compare the soul mate concept to the Romantic Destiny. Considering that most soul mate believers can't have a strong relationship because they commit those expectations will come true rather than to the concept of Romantic Destiny because they believe that relationship can evolve with hard work and compromise even though they are facing difficult problems.

Pretty Baby Movie(1978)

According to Dr. Jeremy Nicholson, "Looking for perfect compatibility and a soul mate kills motivation to work at successful relationship with good partners".This line can be an eye opener to those who believe in Soul mate concept because true love comes in many ways even in your tough situation. Good relationship can work if the two of you work on it,grow from it and evolve from it.

Life is very playful sometimes it is hard but then ends in a very smooth and safe solution. Like love, we can be a strongest and weakest person in this world because of this. Wait for the right time and someday you will enjoy and learn from this. Have a good day. Thanks for reading my fourth blog. I'm so happy :)

"Drama Quotes"