Blog Post 4: Soul Mate do EXIST or NOT?

SOUL MATE,this is a belief to have a lover in a very perfect time and place. It's really hard that you're not sure for its existence.Love concept is playful,it is truly hard to find someone that will seriously and happily be with you for the rest of your lifetime.

Existence? This is a very hard word to apply in some thing that you are expecting to exist. Like SOUL MATE. Many other people accept the concept of having a meant to be,Right? Since all of us are expecting to have a husband/wife in the future. That we will take care,love and share our life time experience on earth.

"Soul Mate not really exist"

Love is such a very powerful kind of feeling. It can be express in many ways. As love is connected to the process of the SOUL MATES. Actually, this is the major cause of having a soul mate thingy on our mind. Considering that we always think of it that we are having that M.U.(most popularly known as Mutual Understanding). But love is not measure of that M.U. thingy. Because we should always think and feel the love so that we can claim that person as our SOUL MATE. But does it exist or not? Big question that may answer in some point. 

I've read an article entitled, Do Soul Mates really exist? written by M.Farouk Radwan from the site 2knowmyself.com. The site is like an encyclopedia. It discuss more about love life as what I observe from its past articles. But let us focus on the latest, I mean, the article that will help us to answer the question if the soul mate thingy is really exist. The article further explains about the own P.O.V. (Point of View) of the writer around the notion of the soul mate. He think that people assume for the thing that they are just realize the similarity of the person, like your father/BFF(Boy Friend Forever). The article merely talk about the story of a girl who believes in the concept of soul mate. The one talk about this is "Sarah", a girl that ask for the advice about the soul mate. She thought that the guy she had met was her forever /soul mate.(Maybe we connect can connect this to the movie of FROZEN) 

"Hans and Anna-FROZEN Character"

The soul mate exist according to the article but only in the movies. So the result is you are just persuade by watching movies so you are tend to believe that it exist. Considering that you can hinder the truth that you are not meant for each other. You did a wrong choice and you become disappointed. So you thought that your unrealistic belief in realistic world ruin your life.

"500 days of Summer"

"We fall in love with people when they meet our subconscious criteria which is a list of conditions present in our minds that is based on our pasts,unmet needs and the desire to compensate for our weaknesses", Mr. Farouk Radwan said.  This statement really persuade us not to believe in the concept of soul mate. Nor we are fall in love not meant.

Jeremy Nicholson
-Doctor of Attraction

Why You Shouldn't Believe in Soul Mates? written by Jeremy Nicholson, Doctor of Attraction from the site psychologytoday.com. The second article that I've read, this article talks about the Soul mates and belief in Romantic Destiny.They are a lot of people who really believe in soul mate but this is wrong as what the article said.According to this article, there is a lot of problems will come because if the expectations don't cope well to your partner, you will leave the relationship instead. In short soul mate concept ideally motivate individual to give up and the relationship will be not that perfect.

This article compare the soul mate concept to the Romantic Destiny. Considering that most soul mate believers can't have a strong relationship because they commit those expectations will come true rather than to the concept of Romantic Destiny because they believe that relationship can evolve with hard work and compromise even though they are facing difficult problems.

Pretty Baby Movie(1978)

According to Dr. Jeremy Nicholson, "Looking for perfect compatibility and a soul mate kills motivation to work at successful relationship with good partners".This line can be an eye opener to those who believe in Soul mate concept because true love comes in many ways even in your tough situation. Good relationship can work if the two of you work on it,grow from it and evolve from it.

Life is very playful sometimes it is hard but then ends in a very smooth and safe solution. Like love, we can be a strongest and weakest person in this world because of this. Wait for the right time and someday you will enjoy and learn from this. Have a good day. Thanks for reading my fourth blog. I'm so happy :)

"Drama Quotes"