Blog Post 4: Soul Mate do EXIST or NOT?

SOUL MATE,this is a belief to have a lover in a very perfect time and place. It's really hard that you're not sure for its existence.Love concept is playful,it is truly hard to find someone that will seriously and happily be with you for the rest of your lifetime.

Existence? This is a very hard word to apply in some thing that you are expecting to exist. Like SOUL MATE. Many other people accept the concept of having a meant to be,Right? Since all of us are expecting to have a husband/wife in the future. That we will take care,love and share our life time experience on earth.

"Soul Mate not really exist"

Love is such a very powerful kind of feeling. It can be express in many ways. As love is connected to the process of the SOUL MATES. Actually, this is the major cause of having a soul mate thingy on our mind. Considering that we always think of it that we are having that M.U.(most popularly known as Mutual Understanding). But love is not measure of that M.U. thingy. Because we should always think and feel the love so that we can claim that person as our SOUL MATE. But does it exist or not? Big question that may answer in some point. 

I've read an article entitled, Do Soul Mates really exist? written by M.Farouk Radwan from the site 2knowmyself.com. The site is like an encyclopedia. It discuss more about love life as what I observe from its past articles. But let us focus on the latest, I mean, the article that will help us to answer the question if the soul mate thingy is really exist. The article further explains about the own P.O.V. (Point of View) of the writer around the notion of the soul mate. He think that people assume for the thing that they are just realize the similarity of the person, like your father/BFF(Boy Friend Forever). The article merely talk about the story of a girl who believes in the concept of soul mate. The one talk about this is "Sarah", a girl that ask for the advice about the soul mate. She thought that the guy she had met was her forever /soul mate.(Maybe we connect can connect this to the movie of FROZEN) 

"Hans and Anna-FROZEN Character"

The soul mate exist according to the article but only in the movies. So the result is you are just persuade by watching movies so you are tend to believe that it exist. Considering that you can hinder the truth that you are not meant for each other. You did a wrong choice and you become disappointed. So you thought that your unrealistic belief in realistic world ruin your life.

"500 days of Summer"

"We fall in love with people when they meet our subconscious criteria which is a list of conditions present in our minds that is based on our pasts,unmet needs and the desire to compensate for our weaknesses", Mr. Farouk Radwan said.  This statement really persuade us not to believe in the concept of soul mate. Nor we are fall in love not meant.

Jeremy Nicholson
-Doctor of Attraction

Why You Shouldn't Believe in Soul Mates? written by Jeremy Nicholson, Doctor of Attraction from the site psychologytoday.com. The second article that I've read, this article talks about the Soul mates and belief in Romantic Destiny.They are a lot of people who really believe in soul mate but this is wrong as what the article said.According to this article, there is a lot of problems will come because if the expectations don't cope well to your partner, you will leave the relationship instead. In short soul mate concept ideally motivate individual to give up and the relationship will be not that perfect.

This article compare the soul mate concept to the Romantic Destiny. Considering that most soul mate believers can't have a strong relationship because they commit those expectations will come true rather than to the concept of Romantic Destiny because they believe that relationship can evolve with hard work and compromise even though they are facing difficult problems.

Pretty Baby Movie(1978)

According to Dr. Jeremy Nicholson, "Looking for perfect compatibility and a soul mate kills motivation to work at successful relationship with good partners".This line can be an eye opener to those who believe in Soul mate concept because true love comes in many ways even in your tough situation. Good relationship can work if the two of you work on it,grow from it and evolve from it.

Life is very playful sometimes it is hard but then ends in a very smooth and safe solution. Like love, we can be a strongest and weakest person in this world because of this. Wait for the right time and someday you will enjoy and learn from this. Have a good day. Thanks for reading my fourth blog. I'm so happy :)

"Drama Quotes"

Blog Post 3: Cultured Love

Sample picture of Couple

Meant to be? A word that you will always get use to when you are referring to a person with his/her couple. Mostly some of them are really love to say that they are waiting for someone that they make them feel special.

In some instance, we have a two way process to find someone that we want to be with someday. These are the process that commonly apply by the persons that desperate to have a better half. It's either TO WAIT OR FIND,TO PRAY. But most of them really prefer to PRAY considering that PRAYER is the most powerful process to do. Since you are talking to our creator, GOD is the most powerful creature,because he is our CREATOR.

Why do some that having a relationship are called CULTURED? This is the question that we will use in order to know some process that we can apply in our own lives. CULTURE,the act of developing the intellectual and moral faculties especially by education, it is also an integrated pattern of human knowledge,belief and behavior that depends upon the capacity for learning and transmitting knowledge to succeeding generations.(Source:Merriam Webster) This is how the generation from now attach to this because of the transmitted learning and knowledge. We are just doing the same thing as the other do past years ago. One of the example the moves in having a soul mate relation is the feelings that you are expressing to your heart but sense by your brain or eyes.

Sabrina Beasley
-The wife of Mr. David Beasley(Deceased)

I've read an article entitled, The Soul Mate Fantasy written by David Beasley from the site familylife.com. This article was written by Mr. David Beasley(Deceased) and edited by his wife Sabrina to publish for the website Family Life. This article written before the writer died because of an automobile accident. He wrote this article to make an eye opener that the soul mates are meant because of the power of our Creator.

He was devoted to the blessed power of God and he connected the article on how they lived and survived their relationship by prayers. Most other people were fantastical, unreal notion that God brings together two lost heart who experience true compatibility in all the deepest longings for their being. Others be like, Soul mate is someone with whom you argue and spend endless days of hand-clinching romantic walk. With no hardships and no struggles. The only truth is, soul mate isn't someone you intentionally and prayerfully become. And so, this is what we are culture for the PRAYERS that we do in order to have a best or maybe a better half to be with through the connection of our Creator.

"It only comes from giving up the selfish behavior that served you while you were single and focusing on selflessly serving again spouse instead",Mr. Beasley said. He is right, Why? because you come in this kind of thingy when you are just alone, loving yourself back and van't have the kind of attention that you want to have. That's the process you always option to. Talk to God and say the things you want to happen. Patience will be your key and this will be the kind of scenario you want to happen will be successful and real.

Tyler O'Neil
- Christian Post Reporter

The Second article that I've read entitled, Soul Mates: What Does the Bible Say About 'The One' You're 'Destined' to Marry? written by Tyler O'Neil, CP Reporter from the site christianpost.com. This article is about how the soul mate thingy by the blessed power of God became possible. This article talk about how those people find their half but not believing the concept of the Soul Mate? Because the center of their fate is still connect to the power of God not the power of our soul. This kind of scenario not really feeds your mind but really feeds your heart that the main source of having a better half is our Creator, GOD. He is the one who construct and plan your destiny not your SOUL. So better to Pray and to Wait so you may have a better one. :) 


According to Mr. O'Neil,"Each man and woman scours the earth for their perfect spouse,so the two can again become one." It is clear that even though Christians don't believe on the concept of Soul Mate they are believing also the fact that all people in this world have a better half soon. 

All of us believe in many concepts.But all of us consistently believe that we are all meant to the other person that we will be with for the rest of our lives,God destined it for us. Considering that we are also believe in the concept of Soul mate let us respect them and try to manipulate that this concepts are inter-related to each other. This is my third blog. Hope that you learn other lesson about the topic. Enjoy reading :) Good Day!

"Soul Mate Quote"

Blog Post 2: Finding a SOUL to become a forever MATE (MYTHS)

Like sign for FACEBOOK users

Generations from now are really depend their selves in the word or beliefs of having a SOUL MATE. Most of them are like using the word "FOREVER" or be like "DESTINY". Some of these are seen either read through social media sites.

But the main question is,Are you planing to find/to wait for your destiny? This s the common questions that first come to the mind of a non-relationship person(SINGLE). It is like dreaming a beautiful scenario and damn end to the wake up call of your parents. Why? Because the true love comes in many ways, but in a right place and time.


We fall in love by chance, but we stay in love by choice. Love will come in a different action. It may come in a very best action sometimes but gets you hurt many time. I will connect this on my own experience. I was 12 years old, grade 6 I was once believed on the Soul mate thingy. You know why because we were so connected and really like or dislike many things. But then I perfectly knew that we were not meant for lovers but as best of friends. As what I said from my first blog that,"Not all people are meant to be sometimes, God uses those people in order to learn from your mistakes..." you can read more about this from the first blog that I write.

"Quote about Love"

Lisa Ann Cockrel- Author

I've read an article entitled,The Myth of a Soul Mate? written by Lisa Ann Cockrel from the site relevantmagazine.com. In this article, it tackle more about the person who don't really believe in the concept of SOUL MATE. Literally, they agreed the most about the power of God; to find you a best partner in life.




The article gives some ideas about the persons who did not concur on the generalization of the concept about SOUL MATE. The example that the writer give is the love story of Dave and Heather Muffitt, 29 and 30 years old. Happily married for 7 years. There relationship is challenge by the distance because of some reasons such as Dave stayed at Pennsylvania and Heather moved to Louisiana to pursue her graduate education, after they get engaged. They challenged in some problems but strongly faced it and end up through a marriage.Behind those problems they deal to marry each other because they want to live in the commitment that the person he/she marrying is his/her THE ONE. It is without the concept of SOUL MATE but by the CHRISTIAN EXPLANATION.

"Christian Love Explanation Art"

According to Lisa Cockrel,"Sacrifice and perseverance consistently characterized description of Love." simply love is full of sacrifices and patience because if really love that person you are willing to sacrifice all just to make sure he/she is happy.

Dr. Yangki C. Akiteng
-Doctor Love

The second article that I've read is the 4 Soul Mate Myths: Soul Connection and Man-Woman Love Limiting Beliefs Written by Dr. Yangki Christine Akiteng from the site torontosnumber1dated.com. This article merely not the same on the opinion from the first article because this is about finding a FOREVER by the concept of SOUL MATE. 



Dr. Akiteng, describes the soul mate as your missing half of soul. Why? Because most of us really want to have a better or best buddies to live with our future. She also quoted that a SOUL MATE is a magical person. The writer really explains further but to simply explain this, Soul mate might be a good or bad thing to you at first but it will teach you more to improve yourself as a better one. The bottom line of having a soul mate is make a dramatic and a profound impact to each other's life.

Creative photograph for explaining SOUL MATES

Dr. Akiteng, "A soul mate is a real breathing walking human being with faults, weaknesses and sometimes really annoying habits" It means that even though a soul mate has its own has its own weakness and imperfect physical appearance and don't really have a good attitude.


People are depending their self in some myths,beliefs and some stories of the other persons but still focus on your own story because all people do or write there own stories in order to make their life much enjoyable. And just trust fate because she do the duties to find your better half. Thanks for reading my second post. Have a good day!

Blog Post 1: Love Intrigue (CRUSH LIFE)

"The Kind of Relationship we all dreaming of"

Do you believe in having a destiny?in the power of love?

Most of us are really dreaming about the guy/girl we want to live with in the future like what we see in the picture at the other side. The guy and girl are just enjoying the breeze of the air and the soft bed of the grass, a simple explanation but as what we see on their expressions they are just HAPPY.

"Cinderella"- One of the most popular movie that Disney Produce

We are simply relating ourselves in the scenarios that commonly happen in a fairy tale that a handsome prince will marry a simple and poor but a beautiful lady. Likely happen in most of the Disney movies such as Cinderella, Beauty and the Beast and many more. 





Now, I want to ask you if you feel thing or emotion when you simply see a cute guy/ cute girl that you first know or met but then your world turns in slow motion because you are mesmerized by the beauty of that creature.This thing is called CRUSH. I remember I felt these kind of feeling I was 7 or 8 years old. Really young right? I don't know but I really love to see him, make moves to catch his attention and make my face just to be good at his eyes. But suddenly I felt that I was really young to had that kind of feeling and action. Maybe at my age now much better. (Evil laugh at Flirty mode) Just kidding. Crush is just "PAGHANGA". If that will exceed its not just attraction, it is love. (Based on the picture below)

Crush life Quotes

Anita Asman- Author

I've read an article entitled, Soul Mate- Our Magic Mirror written by Anita Asman from the site theunexplainedworld.com. The moment of the eyes that these people will meet, it merely happen that you will have weakened knees,strong & fast heartbeats and inexplicable attractions that you will felt when you first met that person. Maybe your souls are meet for some reasons not just to be lovers but you will be good friends or best of your friends. Not all people are meant to be sometimes, God uses those people in order to learn from your mistakes and these people will teach you those lessons.

"Cycle of the Reincarnation"

In some scenarios, you might notice the feeling that you already known that person for a long time even if you just met. It may happen many times that you agreed beforehand to meet again those person in another lifetime just to fulfill other relation with someone else. This is what you called REINCARNATION(Cycle picture at the top). Maybe you will talk about certain issues that will connect each other. Or maybe someone new can teach you more and you will learn many more lessons from them. Its life you will not be successful in all things if you will not learn from your experiences and that EXPERIENCE are come from these person who teaches you.

According to Anita," the eyes are the mirror to the soul when your eyes meet, you remember each other". this is how Reincarnation connect to the world of the Soul mates. Because some people reincarnate and consciously remember by your soul, the joy and the pain you shared the past life time you spend together a decade or century ago.

Dr. Carmen Harra, an author and clinical psychologist(Relationship Expert)

The next article that I've read is the The 10 Elements of a Soul mate written by Dr. Carmen Harra, an author and clinical psychologist(Relationship Expert) from the blog site huffington.com. This blog site explains more about how could you knew if you were fall or been in love to the person. Dr. Harra, explains more about the criteria in having a soul mate partner. She said that lovers are the keys who fit to the lock of the person that they loved. Soul mates aren't just the one who fulfill us in a way that we want it. Not all of us look for the ones that really fit them but someone that will perfectly mold them as a good person. According to Dr. Harra, A great soul partner can be our great supporter and longtime companion  but the limited in his/her capacity to enrich your spirit. 

"Soul Partner Artwork"

Not all people will or can find their soul mate because not most of us give God our FOREVER or buddies to spend a life time either very good or best. In some part, Life will be more bitter if God will not give you a Forever. :)

Dr. Harra said, " Your soul mate makes you feel entirely whole, healed and intact, like no pieces is missing from puzzle." The perfect lover you will find can make you feel whole and protected. Life is nothing without love. Because it is the way that's why He created us. It is a part of His greatest gift "Our Lives". In order to survive this challenge we need to learn and give our love to each other.

Soul Mate is a very mysterious topic and most of us believe in this. But let us think that God is here and He is the one who will take the risk to find our best half in order to enjoy our stay her in the earth. Be thankful and just wait. Hope that you enjoy reading my first blog.Thank you and Good Day :)