Blog Post 2: Finding a SOUL to become a forever MATE (MYTHS)

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Generations from now are really depend their selves in the word or beliefs of having a SOUL MATE. Most of them are like using the word "FOREVER" or be like "DESTINY". Some of these are seen either read through social media sites.

But the main question is,Are you planing to find/to wait for your destiny? This s the common questions that first come to the mind of a non-relationship person(SINGLE). It is like dreaming a beautiful scenario and damn end to the wake up call of your parents. Why? Because the true love comes in many ways, but in a right place and time.


We fall in love by chance, but we stay in love by choice. Love will come in a different action. It may come in a very best action sometimes but gets you hurt many time. I will connect this on my own experience. I was 12 years old, grade 6 I was once believed on the Soul mate thingy. You know why because we were so connected and really like or dislike many things. But then I perfectly knew that we were not meant for lovers but as best of friends. As what I said from my first blog that,"Not all people are meant to be sometimes, God uses those people in order to learn from your mistakes..." you can read more about this from the first blog that I write.

"Quote about Love"

Lisa Ann Cockrel- Author

I've read an article entitled,The Myth of a Soul Mate? written by Lisa Ann Cockrel from the site relevantmagazine.com. In this article, it tackle more about the person who don't really believe in the concept of SOUL MATE. Literally, they agreed the most about the power of God; to find you a best partner in life.




The article gives some ideas about the persons who did not concur on the generalization of the concept about SOUL MATE. The example that the writer give is the love story of Dave and Heather Muffitt, 29 and 30 years old. Happily married for 7 years. There relationship is challenge by the distance because of some reasons such as Dave stayed at Pennsylvania and Heather moved to Louisiana to pursue her graduate education, after they get engaged. They challenged in some problems but strongly faced it and end up through a marriage.Behind those problems they deal to marry each other because they want to live in the commitment that the person he/she marrying is his/her THE ONE. It is without the concept of SOUL MATE but by the CHRISTIAN EXPLANATION.

"Christian Love Explanation Art"

According to Lisa Cockrel,"Sacrifice and perseverance consistently characterized description of Love." simply love is full of sacrifices and patience because if really love that person you are willing to sacrifice all just to make sure he/she is happy.

Dr. Yangki C. Akiteng
-Doctor Love

The second article that I've read is the 4 Soul Mate Myths: Soul Connection and Man-Woman Love Limiting Beliefs Written by Dr. Yangki Christine Akiteng from the site torontosnumber1dated.com. This article merely not the same on the opinion from the first article because this is about finding a FOREVER by the concept of SOUL MATE. 



Dr. Akiteng, describes the soul mate as your missing half of soul. Why? Because most of us really want to have a better or best buddies to live with our future. She also quoted that a SOUL MATE is a magical person. The writer really explains further but to simply explain this, Soul mate might be a good or bad thing to you at first but it will teach you more to improve yourself as a better one. The bottom line of having a soul mate is make a dramatic and a profound impact to each other's life.

Creative photograph for explaining SOUL MATES

Dr. Akiteng, "A soul mate is a real breathing walking human being with faults, weaknesses and sometimes really annoying habits" It means that even though a soul mate has its own has its own weakness and imperfect physical appearance and don't really have a good attitude.


People are depending their self in some myths,beliefs and some stories of the other persons but still focus on your own story because all people do or write there own stories in order to make their life much enjoyable. And just trust fate because she do the duties to find your better half. Thanks for reading my second post. Have a good day!