Blog Post 1: Love Intrigue (CRUSH LIFE)

"The Kind of Relationship we all dreaming of"

Do you believe in having a destiny?in the power of love?

Most of us are really dreaming about the guy/girl we want to live with in the future like what we see in the picture at the other side. The guy and girl are just enjoying the breeze of the air and the soft bed of the grass, a simple explanation but as what we see on their expressions they are just HAPPY.

"Cinderella"- One of the most popular movie that Disney Produce

We are simply relating ourselves in the scenarios that commonly happen in a fairy tale that a handsome prince will marry a simple and poor but a beautiful lady. Likely happen in most of the Disney movies such as Cinderella, Beauty and the Beast and many more. 





Now, I want to ask you if you feel thing or emotion when you simply see a cute guy/ cute girl that you first know or met but then your world turns in slow motion because you are mesmerized by the beauty of that creature.This thing is called CRUSH. I remember I felt these kind of feeling I was 7 or 8 years old. Really young right? I don't know but I really love to see him, make moves to catch his attention and make my face just to be good at his eyes. But suddenly I felt that I was really young to had that kind of feeling and action. Maybe at my age now much better. (Evil laugh at Flirty mode) Just kidding. Crush is just "PAGHANGA". If that will exceed its not just attraction, it is love. (Based on the picture below)

Crush life Quotes

Anita Asman- Author

I've read an article entitled, Soul Mate- Our Magic Mirror written by Anita Asman from the site theunexplainedworld.com. The moment of the eyes that these people will meet, it merely happen that you will have weakened knees,strong & fast heartbeats and inexplicable attractions that you will felt when you first met that person. Maybe your souls are meet for some reasons not just to be lovers but you will be good friends or best of your friends. Not all people are meant to be sometimes, God uses those people in order to learn from your mistakes and these people will teach you those lessons.

"Cycle of the Reincarnation"

In some scenarios, you might notice the feeling that you already known that person for a long time even if you just met. It may happen many times that you agreed beforehand to meet again those person in another lifetime just to fulfill other relation with someone else. This is what you called REINCARNATION(Cycle picture at the top). Maybe you will talk about certain issues that will connect each other. Or maybe someone new can teach you more and you will learn many more lessons from them. Its life you will not be successful in all things if you will not learn from your experiences and that EXPERIENCE are come from these person who teaches you.

According to Anita," the eyes are the mirror to the soul when your eyes meet, you remember each other". this is how Reincarnation connect to the world of the Soul mates. Because some people reincarnate and consciously remember by your soul, the joy and the pain you shared the past life time you spend together a decade or century ago.

Dr. Carmen Harra, an author and clinical psychologist(Relationship Expert)

The next article that I've read is the The 10 Elements of a Soul mate written by Dr. Carmen Harra, an author and clinical psychologist(Relationship Expert) from the blog site huffington.com. This blog site explains more about how could you knew if you were fall or been in love to the person. Dr. Harra, explains more about the criteria in having a soul mate partner. She said that lovers are the keys who fit to the lock of the person that they loved. Soul mates aren't just the one who fulfill us in a way that we want it. Not all of us look for the ones that really fit them but someone that will perfectly mold them as a good person. According to Dr. Harra, A great soul partner can be our great supporter and longtime companion  but the limited in his/her capacity to enrich your spirit. 

"Soul Partner Artwork"

Not all people will or can find their soul mate because not most of us give God our FOREVER or buddies to spend a life time either very good or best. In some part, Life will be more bitter if God will not give you a Forever. :)

Dr. Harra said, " Your soul mate makes you feel entirely whole, healed and intact, like no pieces is missing from puzzle." The perfect lover you will find can make you feel whole and protected. Life is nothing without love. Because it is the way that's why He created us. It is a part of His greatest gift "Our Lives". In order to survive this challenge we need to learn and give our love to each other.

Soul Mate is a very mysterious topic and most of us believe in this. But let us think that God is here and He is the one who will take the risk to find our best half in order to enjoy our stay her in the earth. Be thankful and just wait. Hope that you enjoy reading my first blog.Thank you and Good Day :)